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De-Influencing for a Simpler Life
There was a time when people called it “keeping up with the Joneses.” Now it comes to us through endless scrolling, targeted ads, influencer hauls, aesthetic trends, productivity gadgets, beauty routines, home resets, organization systems, and carefully curated videos designed to make ordinary life feel inadequate. The message is constant: You need this. Your home needs this. Your children need this. Your routine would be better with this. Your kitchen would function better with this. Your life would finally feel peaceful if you just bought one more thing. And little by little, many of us end up overwhelmed, overstuffed, overstimulated, and financially strained while still somehow feeling like we don’t…
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The Small Things Make Room for the Big Things
I used to think homemaking happened in large bursts of effort. An entire day spent cleaning. Hours catching up on laundry. Big exhausting resets after everything had fallen behind. And sometimes, life truly does require those moments. But over time, I’ve discovered something gentler and far more sustainable: small things done consistently create room for the things that matter most. Wiping the counter after making coffee takes only a moment. Putting things back where they belong prevents overwhelming clutter later. Starting a load of laundry before breakfast keeps it from becoming an all-day mountain by the weekend. Picking up the living room in the evening means waking to peace instead…
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Let Your Home Work for You
Many years ago, I was part of a homemaking group run by a woman who said something that stayed with me all these years. She talked about the modern conveniences in our homes as “servants.” The dishwasher. The crock pot. The washing machine. The freezer. The bread machine. The food processor. The vacuum cleaner. These tools were designed to help carry some of the weight of daily life. And yet, so often, we don’t truly use them in ways that serve us well. Some appliances sit untouched in cabinets because we think using them somehow “doesn’t count” as real homemaking. Others are used only occasionally while we continue doing things…
